Why U.S. men don't want to date U.S. women
More and more American men have stopped trying to date American women. A lot of them go to other countries to find better potential life partners.
Some people even use the help of international matchmaking services to find a foreign bride.
I work at one of these companies and have met a few of these men and talked to them. Many said they were done with American women and wanted to try their luck with women from other countries.
I asked them what they thought, and this is what I found out.
You will read a lot of broad statements. Keep in mind, though, that these are just the thoughts and experiences of my clients. In no way, shape, or form do these things reflect what most American men think.
What men in the U.S. think of women in the U.S.
There is no doubt that American men are getting more and more unhappy with American women, and some of these feelings are fair.
Here are some reasons why many American men don't want to date American women anymore:
"They feel like they deserve a lot."
American culture is very focused on the individual. Most American women use the words "I," "my," and "myself" a lot. "I deserve," "My rights," "My wants and needs," and so on, are all examples.
In other words, a lot of these women like themselves a lot. They think that a good man is what they deserve. Because of this, many women won't settle for a guy unless he is smart, good-looking, funny, physically fit, and makes at least $60,000 a year.
Sadly, the men they are looking for only make up about 1% to 3% of the male population in the U.S.
So what about the other parts?
They are being ignored, though. Most men in the U.S. are constantly turned down by women there. It makes sense that they are looking in other countries. Many women in their country have no interest in dating them.
"They have strong opinions and like to argue."
Radical feminism's rise in the United States destroyed the country's traditional idea of what it means to be a woman. Because of this, a lot of American men say that American women have lost their appeal as women because they fight so hard for equality and have pretty much turned into men.
But what's funny about this is that one minute he says, "I don't need your help. "I can do well on my own," or "Men and women should be treated the same." But when it comes to paying the bills or taking care of the family, it's "You're the man and I'm the woman." "I expect you to take care of me."
A lot of these women can contradict themselves. They like to argue and have strong opinions, but their way of thinking is hard to follow. It's usually done to help them or to push their own agendas, which brings us to the third reason.
"They look for chances."
In the United States, women start or file for 70% of divorces.
One of the main reasons American women leave their husbands is that they feel like their husbands are holding them back. These women care more about their jobs, how they look, and their social status than about starting a family.
One of my clients told me that women in his country were too ambitious and would often leave their partners without much thought to go after better things, a brighter future, or even a better man.
Even though NOT ALL American women are like this, men who are tired of dating American women seem to agree on this.
How do you feel? Tell me in the comments below.
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